List of the best sex positions and different styles with color pictures. Positions for pregnant women, gay and lesbian couples, anal sex and other great sex positions.
 
Great Sex Guide: Sex Positions

Over the centuries various sexual positions (ways in which couples physically position themselves for sexual intercourse) have been used. In ancient texts it reveals that it was an art form among certain cultures, as in the Indian Kama Sutra and Arabic Perfumed Garden.

There are many sexual positions which are mostly variations on a few basic positions. As with any other desire you have to find the positions that are most enjoyable to you and your partner. Everybody's needs are different. Some couples are very innovative, some prefer the standard missionary position (man-on-top). The aim of lovemaking, however, should be measured by fulfillment and satisfaction for both partners.

 

The sexual positions a couple uses depends on a variety of factors:

  • Physical comfort
  • Inhibitions about experimenting with different positions
  • Prolonging or hastening orgasm may determine the position
  • Circumstances, such as time available, location, etc.)
  • May find one position more satisfying
 

Some Sexual Positions are:

  Man-on-top missionary position)
  Woman-on-top
  Side-by-side
  Rear-entry
  Spread-eagle
  Leapfrog Position
  Cross Position
  Cuissade Position
  Armchair Position
  Furniture Position
  Head to toe
  Lap Dance
  Split level Position
  Spoon Position
  Standing Position
  Standing and Carrying Position
  Swimming Position
  Spontaneous Position
  Anal intercourse (practiced by some heterosexual couples and some gay men)
 
You can vary these positions by performing them:
  Lying Down
  Sitting
  Standing
  Kneeling
  Combination of these
 

There are many different ways of enjoying sex and countless sexual positions. Some positions offer:

  Chance to embrace and kiss more with all-over body contact
  Deeper Penetration
  Greater Intimacy
  More excitement and tension as they are quite difficult to maintain
Lovers will always find variations of their own. The important thing is to explore each other's feelings and needs and enjoy yourself.
 

The Man-On-Top Position/Missionary Position

The Man-On-Top Position/Missionary Position is named after the 19th century Christian missionaries who believed that the man on top was the only natural and proper position for intercourse, and preached to their converts to give up their animal positions in favor of the man-on-top position.
 
The missionary position is the most common lovemaking position because:
  It is comfortable
  It allows a great deal of body contact
  It allows good depth of penetration
  You can kiss and hold each other at the same time
 
 

How to Do

In the man-on-top position:

  The woman lies on her back with her legs spread and her knees raised while the man enters her vagina with his penis
  The man can either lie flat on the woman if he is not too heavy in weight and it is not uncomfortable for her, or he can support some or all of his weight on his elbows, hands or knees (sometimes the weight of the man on them can restrict a woman's pelvic movement)
  The woman can wrap her legs around the man's hips, back, or over his shoulders, the higher her legs the deeper the man may penetrate with his penis
 

The woman can use her hands freely to caress the man or stimulate her clitoris as the man has limited use of his hands, but it is a good position for being able to see each other and for kissing and to caressing.

Some women do not like the deep penetration of this position.

 

Advantages of the Missionary position

  Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
  Coitus can be combined with erotic kissing on the mouth, including such variants as the "French kiss."
  Penetration is relatively deep
  The man's groin can directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris, depending on how the act is performed
  A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
  The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
  The woman is able to either hasten or delay both her orgasm and that of her partner through voluntary, rhythmic flexation and relaxation of the pubococcygeus muscles surrounding her vagina
  Very little suppleness or flexibility is required of either partner. Both are able to remain relatively relaxed and avoid fatigue
  The intimacy of full-body contact affords a heightened sensual and emotional experience for both the male and female
  The man can reach under and stimulate his partner using his fingers on her clitoris
 

Disadvantages of the Missionary position

  Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
  Coitus can be combined with erotic kissing on the mouth, including such variants as the "French kiss."
  Penetration is relatively deep
  The man's groin can directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris, depending on how the act is performed
  A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
  The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
  The woman is able to either hasten or delay both her orgasm and that of her partner through voluntary, rhythmic flexation and relaxation of the pubococcygeus muscles surrounding her vagina
  Very little suppleness or flexibility is required of either partner. Both are able to remain relatively relaxed and avoid fatigue
  The intimacy of full-body contact affords a heightened sensual and emotional experience for both the male and female
  The man can reach under and stimulate his partner using his fingers on her clitoris
 

How to Do

In the Woman-On-Top/Astride Position:
The man lies on his back and the woman sits on his erect penis
Facing him, she may squat on her haunches
Facing him, she may kneel, supporting herself with her hands, making it easier to lean forward and kiss his mouth.
Sitting on top, facing away from him, increases the depth of penetration
Lying with her whole body along his increases the intimacy
On top the woman can control the pace of lovemaking and regulate the depth of penetration and the rate of thrusting of the penis.

 

The woman-on-top position allows:

  For maximum indirect stimulation of the clitoris by the penis
  Some women to reach orgasm more easily
  Freer hand movements for caressing
  Couples to see each other

Some women do not like the deep penetration of this position. This can be regulated by limiting how far down they lower themselves onto the erect penis.
Due to the vigorous movements the penis can slip out of the vagina which can cause frustration.

 

Advantages of Woman on Top positions

  Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration.
  Clitoral pressure may not be very intense for some women, but can be provided by hand, or by the man periodically semi-withdrawing and manipulating his penis against the woman's clitoris, or by other means.
 

Proponents of the cowgirl position say there are these advantages:

  Both partners can see one another, and in particular the man can view and caress the woman's breasts while they are in a more natural position.
  Often the man can delay his orgasm longer in this position.
  The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
  The woman may take a relatively static position, so that she does not tire (by supporting her upper body with her extended arms with her torso almost horizontal), while the man, not having to support his weight can be quite active without fatigue.
  This variation eases the strain of motion upon the woman's knees, which may be an advantage for some women.
  The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
  The man can enjoy receiving pleasure while relaxing.
  The woman can easily stimulate her clitoris with her hand (if in the upright version).
  The man can stimulate the woman's clitoris with his hand, though some find the thumb to be more comfortable.
  If sitting upright, the woman can reach behind her to stimulate the man's testicles.
  The man can caress the woman's buttocks and stimulate the anus
  In a variant position in which the woman is on top and leaning over the man, the man and woman can embrace and kiss while the man is penetrating the woman. He can also caress her breasts in the position.
  Unlike in the missionary position, in this position the woman has the active role while the man has the passive role.
  It has received a reputation as sexual method of waking up a partner. This has often been referred to as a "Cowgirl Wake Up
  Sex toys that are meant to go around the penis and provide clitoral stimulation for the woman are often most effective with this position.
  As well as being enjoyable for its own vanilla sexual pleasure, this position is a good position for play with sexual dominance: some women like to take control of the man by holding his arms down, and some men like to take control of the woman by taking hold of her arms behind her back. Those of a switchy disposition can move from one to the other and back again. Some consider this to be a position which is particularly suited to female dominance.
 

Disadvantages of Woman on Top positions

  For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
  As well, for the time that the woman is actually sitting up, there is less body to body contact than other positions (it’s not very cuddly, if that’s what you are looking for).
 
Some couples do not like the side-to-side position as deep pelvic thrusting is difficult. The partners can kiss and touch each other's genitals while making love in this position.
 
How To Do
In the side-by-side position:
  The partners lie on their sides facing each other
  The man enters the woman's vagina with his penis
 

The woman wraps her leg around her partner's body to facilitate deeper penetration pulling him towards her with her leg as he thrusts.

   

This position is useful:

  During later pregnancy to accommodate the woman's belly
  For people who need to avoid strenuous activity
 

Advantages of the Side by side position:

  For people with hip problems or a disability this position can be very comfortable and allow for longer, slower penetration
  This position offers a lot of physical contact. If you are facing each other you have your hands free to roam, touch and caress your partner
 

Disadvantages of the Side by side position:

This position does not allow for a lot of leverage for thrusting and both partners may feel like they have less movement and freedom
 
Rear Entry

Rear entry position is not the same as anal intercourse. In rear entry position the man's penis enters the woman's vagina when she has her back to him. Whereas, in anal intercourse the man's penis is inserted into his partner's anus (rectum).

Rear entry allows for deep penetration and vigorous thrusting rather than tender lovemaking so is not really suitable during pregnancy.

How To Do

This position allows for deep penetration.

  • The woman gets on on her hands and knees and her partner kneels behind her (commonly known as 'doggy style')
  • Both partners may stand with the woman bending forward and supporting herself against something, bed, furniture, wall, etc.
  • Both partners lie on their sides, her back to his front
  • The position allows the man to caress his partner's breasts, buttocks and clitoris

An alternative rear entry position known as the Spread-eagle Position:

  • The woman lies face down with the man on top of her and spreads her legs, while lifting her bottom off the bed slightly (with a pillow, etc.), to achieve deeper penetration
  • The man supports his weight on his arms or lays with his full weight on his partner
 

Advantages of the Rear-entry Position

  • For the penetrating partner, this position offers an unobstructed view of the partner's body from the rear as well as leaving the hands and arms free. Having the arms and hands free allows the penetrating partner to stimulate the clitoris or anus of the receiving partner.
  • In a rear-entry sex position, the woman can feel exceptionally vulnerable. Some women find this highly stimulating – the thought of being penetrated and taken in an ‘animal-like’ way greatly turns them on. However, other women find it a turn-off because they consider it an ‘unromantic’ position.
  • For some women this position provides the best stimulation of the G Spot.
  • For the male, the penetrating position allows for different sensations during sex as compared with other positions. For example, in this position, the testicles may brush against the receiver's thighs.
 

Disadvantages of the Rear-entry Position

  • One drawback of this position for some is the difficulty of maintaining direct eye contact, or kissing.
  • Some women may experience pain due to over-penetration.
  • Despite it being a deep penetration position, it is very easy for the penis to slip out.
  • Some women experience vaginal flatulence when engaging in this position.
  • This position is often great to play with sexual dominance: some consider the position humiliating or degrading because of its perceived link to animal copulation, or more generally, because of its perceived submissive or receptive nature. For this reason, rear entry intercourse features in some sexual fetishes such as human animal roleplay.

Whatever the physical and emotional advantages and disadvantages of rear-entry positions, there are many practical advantages for the couple who enjoy making love in this way.

For all its pleasures and advantages, rear-entry lovemaking is not very romantic. For many couples, though, this is no drawback, as the woman will want to be taken with embrace on some occasions, while on others she will want tender loving and romantic intercourse.

 
Standing Position
This position is often used in spontaneous or unexpected encounters.
How To Do
Both partners stand using the wall as support but it is not easy to move in this position
 
Advantages of Standing positions
  • As with all standing sex positions, this one can be great for quickie sex
  • You can use the wall for support and push off it, allowing the partner against the wall more strength to guide the penetration
  • Lots of fantasy role play potential with this position
  • If you have strong leg muscles you can vary the angle and strength of penetration without extra strain on your hips.
  • Receiver can easily thrust
  • The lack of contact with the ground can allow both partners the advantages of free movement
  • Spontaneous sex, even if there is no place to lie or sit
  • Couples often find this spontaneity to be very romantic
  • Many find this position, with the receiver clinging to the penetrator, to be very intimate
  • In the carrying variant, women often find the motion of the man walking to be very stimulating.
 

Disadvantages of Standing positions

  • Requires significant leg muscle strength and flexibility for the basic position and can be tiring, because of this some won’t use it for an entire session, or won’t orgasm in this position
  • Most of the physical contact is with the upper body, and when you are facing away from each other, the partner facing the wall doesn’t get to touch very much.
  • Requires practice
  • May be too difficult if the partners are of greatly unequal in height
  • May be too difficult with overweight people
  • It is sometimes difficult to achieve motion without support
  • Some couples consider it less romantic
  • There is a danger of back injury for man
  • Arms are often occupied; making manual stimulation difficult.
 
Standing and Carrying Position
 
This is quite a strenuous position.
How To Do
  • The man stands holding his partner in his arms
  • The woman wraps her legs around his waist and her arms round his shoulders
  • The woman moves against him by pulling herself up and down while the man helps her with his arms
 
Spread-eagle
In this rear entry position, the woman lies face down with the man on top of her. She spreads her legs and he supports his weight on his arms.
How To Do
  • If she raises her bottom off the bed slightly, perhaps with the aid of a pillow under her hips, then it will be possible to achieve deeper penetration.
  • The man can also lie with his full weight on his partner, from which position it is easy to roll into 'spoons'.

 

Advantages of the Spread Eagle Position
  • For the penetrating partner, this position offers an unobstructed view of the partner's body from the rear as well as leaving the hands and arms free.
  • In a rear-entry sex position, the woman can feel exceptionally vulnerable. Some women find this highly stimulating – the thought of being penetrated and taken in an ‘animal-like’ way greatly turns them on. However, other women find it a turn-off because they consider it an ‘unromantic’ position.
  • For some women this position provides the best stimulation of the G Spot
  • For the male, the penetrating position allows for different sensations during sex as compared with other positions. For example, in this position, the testicles may brush against the receiver's thighs.
 

Disadvantages of the Spread Eagle Position

  • One drawback of this position for some is the difficulty of maintaining direct eye contact, or kissing.
  • Some women may experience pain due to over-penetration.
  • Despite it being a deep penetration position, it is very easy for the penis to slip out.
  • Some women experience vaginal flatulence when engaging in this position.
  • This position is often great to play with sexual dominance: some consider the position humiliating or degrading because of its perceived link to animal copulation, or more generally, because of its perceived submissive or receptive nature. For this reason, rear entry intercourse features in some sexual fetishes such as human animal roleplay.
 
Leapfrog Position
This position is ideal when the woman starts to feel uncomfortable with the man's weight pressing down on her. It also protects her belly from over-enthusiastic thrusting.
 
How To Do
  • The woman kneels on the bed with legs spread wide falling forwards as the man enters her from behind
  • The man can then caress her back and control the depth of thrust
 

Advantages of the Leapfrog Position

  • It is sometimes relieving for the front partner to somewhat relax, laying his/her head on a pillow or on crossed arms, but this can also sometimes restrict the breathing, so caution should be taken.
  • For the penetrating partner, this position offers an unobstructed view of the partner's body from the rear as well as leaving the hands and arms free. Having the arms and hands free allows the penetrating partner to stimulate the clitoris or anus of the receiving partner.
  • In a rear-entry sex position, the woman can feel exceptionally vulnerable. Some women find this highly stimulating – the thought of being penetrated and taken in an ‘animal-like’ way greatly turns them on. However, other women find it a turn-off because they consider it an ‘unromantic’ position.
  • For some women this position provides the best stimulation of the G Spot

For the male, the penetrating position allows for different sensations during sex as compared with other positions. For example, in this position, the testicles may brush against the receiver's thighs
This position allows for easy access for manual stimulation of the front person's genitals. It may create the feeling of domination and control, too, and allow for direct spanking or fondling without the reciprocation of the partner.
It is especially beneficial to pregnant women, too, as it takes the stress off the belly, and in the more kneeling variation, it can prevent pain from hard thrusting.

 

Disadvantages of the Leapfrog Position

  • One drawback of this position for some is the difficulty of maintaining direct eye contact, or kissing.
  • Some women may experience pain due to over-penetration.
  • Despite it being a deep penetration position, it is very easy for the penis to slip out.
  • Some women experience vaginal flatulence when engaging in this position.
  • One disadvantage of this position is it can cause strain on the receiving partner's back.
  • This position is often great to play with sexual dominance: some consider the position humiliating or degrading because of its perceived link to animal copulation, or more generally, because of its perceived submissive or receptive nature. For this reason, rear entry intercourse features in some sexual fetishes such as human animal roleplay.
  • Because this position can be done either with the front person's legs between the others, or on the outside, there are different advantages/disadvantages depending on the variation.
  • If the front person's legs are on the inside, it creates a smaller, tighter entrance and if they're on the outside, it opens it up some and may feel looser, but it allows for deeper penetration. Regardless, the different angle can create new sensations for both partners.
 
The Cross Position
This position is somewhat easier to maintain if the man lies beneath on his back and the woman is in control.
 
How To Do
  • The woman lies on her back on the bed and the man lies diagonally across her.
  • She opens her legs to allow him to enter and he rocks gently from side to side.
  • She can guide his movements with the pressure of her hands.

Advantages of the Cross position

  • Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
  • Penetration is relatively deep
  • The man's groin can directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris, depending on how the act is performed
  • A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
  • The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
  • The woman is able to either hasten or delay both her orgasm and that of her partner through voluntary, rhythmic flexation and relaxation of the pubococcygeus muscles surrounding her vagina
  • Very little suppleness or flexibility is required of either partner. Both are able to remain relatively relaxed and avoid fatigue
  • The intimacy of full-body contact affords a heightened sensual and emotional experience for both the male and female
  • The man can reach under and stimulate his partner using his fingers on her clitoris
 
Disadvantages of the Cross position
  • If the man's weight is placed upon the woman as it may be uncomfortable for her, to avoid this the man can support his weight upon his arms and knees, which may become tiring for him
  • Some women do not enjoy the possibly submissive sensation of being under their partner
  • Because it is hard to enter on an angle it is advised you enter in the common missionary then twist to form the cross position.
 
Cuissade/Scissors Position

This position is known as cuissade, from the French cuisse, meaning thigh. The woman can exert a certain amount of restraint with her thigh, which can make it more exciting. The position is a very intimate one and the lovers can hold one another and kiss.

How To Do

  • The woman lies on her back with the man at her side
  • She raises the leg nearest to him and rests it on his body
  • He enters from under her thigh with his nearest leg crossing her body
Advantages of the Scissors positions
  • For people with hip problems or a disability this position can be very comfortable and allow for longer, slower penetration
  • This position offers a lot of physical contact. If you are facing each other it allows the couple to be close and hold each other as they caress and kiss.
  • The woman can exert a certain amount of restraint with her thigh, which can make it more exciting.
 

Disadvantages of the Scissors Position

  • This position does not allow for a lot of leverage for thrusting and both partners may feel like they have less movement and freedom
  • Although this does increase skin contact and allow for a more unique angle for penetration, it comes at the partial expense of comfort
Many people don’t like this position because they find it awkward to position their legs without causing one of the partner’s irritation or pain, but it does have a solid following amongst those who can find the “sweet spot.”
 
Armchair Position
How To Do
  • The woman sits comfortably in an armchair with her hands and legs around the man
  • The man kneels in front of her and enters her
  • He can support himself with his hands on the back of the chair which will allow him more thrust.
 
Advantages of the Verticle Missionary Position
  • This position offers the giver a great deal of freedom of movement, so any natural tempo shouldn't be a problem
  • In some sense this is a nice “lazy” position for the person on the bed, as you’re comfortable and don’t have to do a lot of moving or supporting yourself.
  • Either partner can grab onto the bed for leverage, and it provides a firm support with some give.
  • This position can also be good for either or both partner if fatigue is an issue
  • Both partners can see each other and make eye contact, thereby receiving feedback from their facial expressions, breathing, and vocalizations
  • Coitus can be combined with erotic kissing on the mouth, including such variants as the "French kiss."
  • Penetration is relatively deep
  • The man's groin can directly or indirectly stimulate the clitoris, depending on how the act is performed
  • A relatively quick male orgasm can be achieved if so desired; conversely, the greater control afforded the man enables him to delay his orgasm and thereby prolong the copulatory act
  • The woman may enjoy the sensation of submission to the male and the freedom to caress him as she chooses
  • The intimacy of full-body contact affords a heightened sensual and emotional experience for both the male and female
 

Disadvantages of the Verticle Missionary Position

  • One partner is doing most of the work in this position, so you might not consider it completely equitable.
  • The partner not being supported by the bed may want to use pillows for comfort if they are on their knees
  • It can be difficult for partners to manually stimulate the clitoris
  • This position sometimes produces a quick male orgasm (premature ejaculation)
Furniture Position
This position allows the man greater control and very deep penetration.
 
How To Do
  • Find furniture that is the correct height
  • The woman lies on the edge of a table, futon or bed covered with quilts and pillows and spreads her legs wide
  • The man begins by kneeling and giving the woman cunnilingus
  • The man enters the woman supporting himself on his knees and holding her legs.
 
Head to toe
The woman is very much in control in this position.
 
How To Do
  • The man lies on his back with his legs spread and his penis inside the woman
  • The woman lies on her back with her legs spread across her partner's and her toes pointing to his head and her head away from him.
 
Advantages of the Head to Toe position
  • Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration.
  • Each person has a view of the other person's feet. Sucking toes and massaging the insoles adds an extra stimulation which can be very arousing.
  • Clitoral pressure may not be very intense for some women, but can be provided by hand, or by the man periodically semi-withdrawing and manipulating his penis against the woman's clitoris, or by other means.
  • The woman is very much in control in this position.
  • Often the man can delay his orgasm longer in this position.
  • The position is far less tiring for the man as he does not have to support his weight while also being physically active.
  • The woman can control the depth, intensity, and angle of penetration, and enjoy the dominant feeling of being in control.
  • The woman can easily stimulate her clitoris with her hand.
  • The man can stimulate the woman's clitoris with his hand, though some find the thumb to be more comfortable.
  • Unlike in the missionary position, in this position the woman has the active role while the man has the passive role.
  • Sex toys that are meant to go around the penis and provide clitoral stimulation for the woman are often most effective with this position.
  • This is a great position for couples who want to try something new, and are prepared to make fools of themselves and be comfortable laughing about how hard this position makes lovemaking.
 

Disadvantages of the Head to Toe position

  • For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
  • The angle of entry is very different than what most couples are used to and often will require verbal communication.
  • As well, for the time that the woman is actually sitting up, there is less body to body contact than other positions (it’s not very cuddly, if that’s what you are looking for).
 
Lap Dance
The woman is very much in control of the the pace of lovemaking in this position.
 
How To Do
  • The man sits with the woman facing him straddling his lap, kissing and caressing her breasts
  • The woman moves up and down on him supporting herself with her knees on the bed, sofa, chair, etc. with her arms around his neck
  • The woman may also face away from him supporting herself against furniture, etc. in front of her allowing deeper penetration
 
 
Spoon Position
This position is called the spoon position because of the close fit of the two bodies.
 
How To Do
The partners lie on their sides and the man enters from behind
 
This position is:
  • Good for slow sensual lovemaking before going to sleep, or on waking during the night, as it is very intimate and relaxing
  • A comfortable position in later pregnancy which does not put to much pressure on the woman's belly
 

Advantages of the Spooning position

  • For people with hip problems or a disability this position can be very comfortable and allow for longer, slower penetration
  • This position offers a lot of physical contact for the person doing the penetration
 

Disadvantages of the Spooning position

This position does not allow for a lot of leverage for thrusting and both partners may feel like they have less movement and freedom.
 
Swimming Position
Many women find this position very exciting and are more likely to reach orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation. This is a good position for kissing and total body contact.
 
How To Do
  • The man lies on his back spreading his legs
  • The woman lies on top of him with her legs along his and her feet on his
  • The woman controls the pace of lovemaking by dragging herself up and down against him.
  • The woman can vary the position by closing her legs tight while his remain spread or by getting him to close his, or both
 

Advantages of the Swimming position

  • Penetration is quite deep, and the woman can control the depth and intensity of penetration.
  • The woman is in control, and provides as much body contact as possible
  • For a woman who likes the sense of penetration and the feeling of her man's penis inside her, this is a powerful experience.
  • Many women find this position very exciting and are more likely to reach orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation this way than any other.
  • There is a good opportunity for kissing and total body contact.
 

Disadvantages of the Swimming position

  • For people who like a lot of thrusting penetration, this position can be unsatisfying.
  • As well, for the time that the woman is actually sitting up, there is less body to body contact than other positions (it’s not very cuddly, if that’s what you are
 
Spontaneous Position
This position is very suitable for spontaneous urges to make love as it is able to be done just by loosening of the clothes. It is good for fast exciting sex, giving both partners the opportunity to thrust against one another.
 
How To Do
The woman leans over the nearest available piece of furniture, etc. and the man enters her vagina from behind.
 

Homosexual Positions

Gay and lesbian couples do not differ much from those of heterosexual couples. The many sexual positions that same or opposite sex couples may experience remains basically the same. However:

  • Gay men usually have anal intercourse more often than heterosexual couples
  • Gay women are more likely to use sex toys in their lovemaking
 

Positions for pregnancy

Spoon Position

This position puts no pressure on the woman's abdomen and is suitable for the most advanced stages of pregnancy.

How To Do

  • The woman lies comfortably on her side and the man enters her from behind fitting his body closely to hers
  • The man can cuddle up close and caress her breasts while kissing her shoulders and the nape of her neck
 

Leapfrog Position

This position is ideal when the woman starts to feel uncomfortable with the man's weight pressing down on he. It also protects her belly from over-enthusiastic thrusting.

How To Do

  • The woman kneels on the bed with legs spread wide falling forwards as the man enters her from behind
  • The man can then caress her back and control the depth of thrust
 

Woman-On-Top/Astride Position

This is a good position for the middle months of pregnancy when other positions have become uncomfortable.

How To Do

  • The woman sits astride the man's lap and supports herself with her arms
  • The woman moves up and down on top of him
 

Spread-eagle

In this rear entry position, the woman lies face down with the man on top of her. She spreads her legs and he supports his weight on his arms.

How To Do

  • If she raises her bottom off the bed slightly, perhaps with the aid of a pillow under her hips, then it will be possible to achieve deeper penetration.
  • The man can also lie with his full weight on his partner, from which position it is easy to roll into 'spoons'.
 
 
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